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	<title>Not a Girl, Not Yet a Wino &#187; relationships or the lack thereof</title>
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		<title>Two weeks</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/04/two-weeks/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/04/two-weeks/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 15:33:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[things that are perfectly fine with me]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I’m not sure how long it’s been, but it feels like an eternity. Two weeks feel like they’re almost too much to document, too much for 500 words. It’s interesting that some of the more defining moments in life are the ones that are most difficult to capture with simplicity. Pictures might be better, less [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>21</slash:comments>
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		<title>Questioning</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/04/questioning/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/04/questioning/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 20:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m trying my best in one particular aspect of my life to remain restrained, classy, appropriate. I’m wondering on odd days just what the sense is. I am my mother’s daughter, a woman who makes few waves and often accepts things as they come to her. I’m also the woman she raised me to be, [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>17</slash:comments>
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		<title>On mending</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/03/on-mending/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/03/on-mending/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:11:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.notyetawino.com/?p=981</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Someone sent me this question on Formspring last week. I chose to post my response here, first because I’m not sure anyone really reads my responses on Formspring, and second because I wanted my thoughts on this documented, if only to remind me of what a difference a few years makes.
When was the last time [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>21</slash:comments>
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		<title>On missing</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/03/on-missing/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/03/on-missing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.notyetawino.com/?p=965</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s odd, this. Unwavering yet intermittent. It comes, goes, grips at once like a flu and at another moment, unremarkable. Symptoms are scattered, inconsistent. There are patches of day in which the void is so whole, so pronounced, distinct, yet life happens just as it has, to do task lists tallied and Blockbuster DVDs returned. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>5</slash:comments>
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		<title>30 Days</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/01/30-days/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2010/01/30-days/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 16:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[You get to spend a month playing house. Not under the finest of circumstances, let’s be honest. The stressors at play right now are beyond what normal couples face in several years of togetherness and the hits keep coming. Painful and substantive hits, the kind that psychologists make lists of to remind us that life [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>12</slash:comments>
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		<title>Ringing in the New Year</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2009/12/ringing-in-the-new-year/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2009/12/ringing-in-the-new-year/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 22:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Anyone remember this post from May 2008? Please read it again. Indulge me! Do it for the legless cat!
Likeableus Boyfriendus
Every so often a friend picks a good one. He’s not a player. He doesn’t talk about his job ad nauseum with a puffed chest. He doesn’t hit on her friends when she’s in the bathroom. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>14</slash:comments>
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		<title>A fight</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2009/12/a-fight/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2009/12/a-fight/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 15:05:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m hating tonight with the heat of a thousand suns. Bottles of Texas Pete? It matters not. I simply cannot stand the divide between myself and another, the feeling that there&#8217;s even a sliver of space between us. It doesn&#8217;t just rock my world. It upsets the delicate balance of things, not the way things [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>8</slash:comments>
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		<title>Frustration, not to be confused with desperation</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/10/frustration-not-to-be-confused-with-desperation/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/10/frustration-not-to-be-confused-with-desperation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 17:38:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mating]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.notyetawino.com/?p=628</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I once knew a woman who zipped through labor with her second child. Out of nowhere, the pain was immense. &#8220;Bring me drugs,&#8221; she begged her husband. He shook his head no. She punched him in the face. &#8220;Bring me drugs!&#8221; she demanded. The nurse shook her head no. My friend had missed the window [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>54</slash:comments>
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		<title>This</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/07/this-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/07/this-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 13:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.notyetawino.com/?p=565</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Few things ache more than this, than him choosing a different path. Few things hurt more than catching his movements out of the corner of your eye, watching him pause, and knowing he&#8217;ll make another choice. That he&#8217;ll find an easier conversation, a more suitable old friend or the bartender, something other than you. And [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>15</slash:comments>
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		<title>Can’t you read the signs?</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/07/can%e2%80%99t-you-read-the-signs/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/07/can%e2%80%99t-you-read-the-signs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 11:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.notyetawino.com/?p=563</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dating is amazing. And not in the way that Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups are amazing, what with the simplicity of their sheer sugary splendor. Dating is more amazing in a Ted Bundy sort of way, as in inspiring shock and horror and at times a desire to turn your head and vomit. More like that.
I [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>30</slash:comments>
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		<title>Preachy keen</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/06/preachy-keen/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/06/preachy-keen/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 17:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[everyday]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.notyetawino.com/?p=561</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I know a girl going through a breakup. It&#8217;s a break, really, but regardless of the official terminology, it clearly hurts like a breakup. Thoughts of never being with that person again are incredibly painful, like someone setting your hair on fire. Or an iron rod being rammed through your skull. Or Keebler elves shaving [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>24</slash:comments>
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		<title>the sad, sad state of affairs</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/05/the-sad-sad-state-of-affairs/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/05/the-sad-sad-state-of-affairs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 12:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I made the mistake of watching the Bachelorette on Tivo last night. If this is all that’s left in the dating pool – men who special order briefs with your name scrawled on the ass, boys who get so tanked that they rip off their shirts to expose chests that should not see the dim [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>18</slash:comments>
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		<title>Likeableus Boyfriendus</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/05/likeableus-boyfriendus/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2008/05/likeableus-boyfriendus/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 14:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[relationships or the lack thereof]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Every so often a friend picks a good one. He’s not a player. He doesn’t talk about his job ad nauseum with a puffed chest. He doesn’t hit on her friends when she’s in the bathroom. Every once in a while you like a friend’s new beau and want to pull her aside and tell [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>19</slash:comments>
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		<title>The story of the most recent date, told in most circuitous fashion with multiple dessert references.</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/09/the-story-of-the-most-recent-date-told-in-most-circuitous-fashion-with-multiple-dessert-references/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/09/the-story-of-the-most-recent-date-told-in-most-circuitous-fashion-with-multiple-dessert-references/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 16:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really like chocolate chip mint ice cream. I’ve tried a lot of different flavors in my life, and you know what? It just does it for me. Coffee, vanilla, strawberry – even chocolate brownie chunk, the namesake of my thighs – they’re all good, but I prefer chocolate chip mint to most any variety. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>27</slash:comments>
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		<title>nostrakimus</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/09/nostrakimus/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/09/nostrakimus/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 14:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night was the first time I saw the new man since the &#8211; *cough* &#8211; incident. Kim showered me with tough love advice before the date.
Kim&#8217;s thoughts as to how the night should go:
Ah, well, what *I* would do is keep it light at the beginning. Not light and fluffy, just light. Small talkish, [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>22</slash:comments>
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		<title>the right stuff</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/the-right-stuff/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/the-right-stuff/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Aug 2007 16:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night was date number 4. The Kris of yesteryear would have been picking out china patterns at this point in the relationship, but her current counterpart opted instead for a night of Mexican food and good conversation and ruby red sangria, one of God&#8217;s true nectars. I think it goes without saying that Eve [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>30</slash:comments>
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		<title>number 2</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/number-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/number-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2007 11:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You arrive 25 minutes early, the result of your obsession with being prompt for each and every engagement. If you’re being honest, a late entrance would also mean you’d have to walk toward him, revealing once and for all that your skirt does not look nearly as good in motion as it does perched atop [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>32</slash:comments>
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		<title>jinx</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/jinx/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/jinx/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2007 14:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The day before I found the clementine-sized tumor on Bug’s side, I sent an email to his first mom letting him know just how well he was doing.  It occurred to me that I might be jinxing his welfare, but Bug had been a healthy cat for many a year, and an innocuous electronic [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>20</slash:comments>
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		<title>Busy bee</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/busy-bee/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/busy-bee/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Aug 2007 18:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My date last night was charming, even more striking in person than I remembered.  Our evening was one full of laughter and sweet looks across our table and warm soft pretzels.  Sadly, this date didn&#8217;t put out.  Maybe next time.
Tonight, another date, this of a different gender.  Details tomorrow.
]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>mending</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/mending/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/08/mending/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 12:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m not sure exactly how it happens. Formulas work well for both NASA launches and cocktails, but matter not when you’re in the depths of It.
I recall naturally and am well reminded by private writings that life was in shambles, that work consisted of showing up and hoping on a fundamental level that even my [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>24</slash:comments>
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		<title>on doing the right thing</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/07/on-doing-the-right-thing/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/07/on-doing-the-right-thing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jul 2007 14:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As best I can, I’m slowly moving on from the events of last week. Given the current situation with the tripod, I feel almost like a main player in a Little House on the Prairie episode: time’s a wastin’, Half Pint. Can’t spare frettin’ over Nellie’s antics when the barn’s a burnin’. Or something like [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>25</slash:comments>
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		<title>on bailing</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/07/on-bailing/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/07/on-bailing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2007 03:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You should know that I’ve hidden things from this site, from you, many a time. I’ve been afraid to show you who what lies behind the (at times strained) wit. Of hurting my mother and father. Of being fired. Of shattering your image of me as a somewhat stable woman who eats Easy Mac and [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>44</slash:comments>
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		<title>cut, color, clarity, carat</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/06/cut-color-clarity-carat/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/06/cut-color-clarity-carat/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2007 12:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My snobbery reached new heights this weekend when, during a matinee showing of Spiderman 3, which was surprisingly well attended by other missed-the-boaters, I cringed when I saw the original gold engagement ring Peter contemplated purchasing for MJ. Seriously? I thought while scarfing down badly reheated pretzel bites. That&#8217;s the best Spidey can do for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why You Should Never Write About Happiness</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/05/why-you-should-never-write-about-happiness/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/05/why-you-should-never-write-about-happiness/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2007 22:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because when you do, you start your day with your car being backed into, and although you tell the woman not to worry about the damage on this fine spring morning and send her on her way, thinking that she’ll pay it forward and karma’s goodness may just end up knocking on your door, it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>a single girl&#8217;s valentine&#8217;s post</title>
		<link>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/02/a-single-girls-valentines-post/</link>
		<comments>http://www.notyetawino.com/2007/02/a-single-girls-valentines-post/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 14:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m betting that many of you came here today for a bitter single woman&#8217;s diatribe.  Written by a girl wearing black down to her underwear, lying on the couch with her 81 cats watching chick flicks with a dozen consoling Cinnabons.
And while the majority of the above statements is true about me at most [...]]]></description>
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