Comments on: Oh I’ll tell you when you’ll have sex again*

By: Zandria

Zandria — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 17:10:08 +0000

Great post. I completely agree with you. I’d much rather wait for the real thing than have the quick brownie sundae that’s over with really quickly. :)

By: Gwen

Gwen — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 15:38:58 +0000

I totally insert myself in other people’s conversations. ESPECIALLY if they’re talking about sex.

By: Kim

Kim — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 02:48:21 +0000

Monogamous sex? Bah, crazy talk. I like my casualness. You’re just one of those relationshipy people. Weirdo.

Also, is it at all strange that I TOTALLY forgot you had a blog? Wtf? Of course, I’ve also forgotten that I have a blog sooo…

By: Rebekah

Rebekah — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 14:35:05 +0000

Am glad I read this post this morning after feeling the slightest little twinge of guilt after having birthday sex with Tim last night (his birthday, not mine, but a good excuse – as if we needed one).
I’ve gotten to the point where if I can’t have monogamous romantic-relationship sex, it feels almost like monogamous friends-with-benefits sex is just as well because neither of us are getting it anywhere else, and at least there’s some element of affection.

And hey, a girl’s got needs.

By: wildbillthePirate

wildbillthePirate — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 02:50:04 +0000

I’ve never tried blogging in a bar. . . Perhaps I will.

BTW: I don’t think you need to apologise to you Dad. If he was half the Man you describe, he just wants you to be Happy Kris- no matter what it takes!

By: Heather B.

Heather B. — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:25:04 +0000

Once upon a time I went without getting any for an amount of time somewhere between eons and a decade. And now it’s been 6 weeks and I am DYYYYING. But I would never write about it because I’m just a pussy like that but still death is knocking on my door because I might never get laid again. Or so I say after six (long ass) weeks.

By: anne

anne — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 03:26:33 +0000

Kris can I move in with you?

By: KB

KB — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 00:29:49 +0000

I just love you :)

By: skyzi

skyzi — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 20:09:16 +0000

I am alarmed by the kinshipI feel with you after this post. Damn I need to get some!

By: Pants

Pants — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 18:44:06 +0000

I’m stuck at your arousal upon hearing Pat O’Brien’s harassing phone message.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 18:40:19 +0000

What bar?

By: nicalyse

nicalyse — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 17:09:21 +0000

Your observations are spot on. I can’t help wondering, however, exactly where on the spectrum casual monogamy might fall.

Then again, never mind. I know exactly where it falls.

By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 15:54:54 +0000

“When I dip my toe in the pool of casual sex, I invariably feel empty. It’s rewarding like a chocolate brownie sundae is rewarding, drawn out and perfectly luscious, but limited. It’s decadent and filling and sinful and fun while it’s all happening.”

Yep!

“It’s an oversimplification, but monogamous sex is like reaching Eden. It’s being able to bite the apple and get a redo if it doesn’t taste just so the first time. It’s exciting and it’s thrilling, because it’s safe while not necessarily always being so. It’s appreciation.”

And again!

By: t2ed

t2ed — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 14:26:52 +0000

Why is Pat O’Brien texting me all this filth?

Oh, and don’t talk to strangers. Escpecially in Boston bars. Because it’s not like you can understand them except for the occasional “wicked cool.”

By: Ryane

Ryane — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 14:01:59 +0000

THAT IS SOOOO NOT TRUE, MY BEAUTIFUL FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: kris

kris — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 11:55:09 +0000

Sadly, I am certain, M. You are much, much better looking than I.

By: Ryane

Ryane — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 11:50:41 +0000

K…are you sure, absolutely certain?!? that we aren’t twins who were cruelly seperated at birth??

By: daddymolson

daddymolson — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 03:40:10 +0000

I always like to say that sex is like lasagne-

Good lasagne is great, and bad lasagne is pretty good.

By: The Glamorous Life

The Glamorous Life — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 23:13:04 +0000

Posts like these make me really really regret telling my mother about my blog. I could never write about *these* things…although I have A LOT to say on the subject girlfriend. ALOT!

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By: lizriz

lizriz — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 21:43:53 +0000

What a beautiful post, and thank you! I may have to print this out and hang it on a bedpost. ;)

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By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:30:50 +0000

As the nerdy-girl cum slut (hee) who is now married, I agree 100%. Also I’ve had a martini, so I’m having trouble writing coherant sentences.

By: Kathryn

Kathryn — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 03:01:59 +0000

I love this and as a serial mnonogamist myself (have actully broken out in hives as a result of “casual”) I second your sentiment

By: MereCat

MereCat — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 02:57:58 +0000

You’re my girl, blogging from a bar. I think I sat in that same barstool.